My "so call" friends...hmm, here you go:
3 LTC's in my unit flew multiple combat sorties in Desert Storm with stories that'll make your jaw drop...being engaged by multiple SAM's and strafing Iraqi trucks on the highway of hell out of Baghdad.
2 LTC's flew in the Kosovo conflict in 96 with multiple combat sorties and support missions.
Most of my squadron (prior to my arrival) flew in OIF in the summer of '03. Three individuals in particular dropped multiple times involving CAS sorties with numerous troops in contact situations...all great aviators and patriots.
For me - I was flying the F-15 at the time so I never deployed over to the Middle East (and never have I claimed I did). However, I've missed 2 seperate Christmas's with my family to "bore holes in the sky" flying Noble Eagle over DC and Camp David to provide Homeland Defense. And even though I was only capping (sorry I know that's a dishonor in your eyes and doesn't fit your standards of service) for 5 hour sorties at a time for 3 months stints, I was very proud to be serving my country and protecting the President and his family. And since I was flying the F-15 at the time, I never had the capability to "droop" a bomb at that particular time.
As far as an actual dogfight - the last time that happened where merges were occuring in WVR was Desert Storm. And my old squadron commander did have two Mig Kills from that in an F-15. Hopefully that'll fit your mighty standards.
Just as a side note - when and where have you served? And if so, I'd love to hear about your dogfights and your Mig Kills.