mcjohn said:
I did ask for opinions and I appreciate all of them.
We're in agreement on the role of a mother.
Trailer park was kind of figurative. I own a fairly nice house.
Remember, I've never heard of most of these regionals. Someone just mentioned Colgan above and I hope to learn about them here.
I'm confused on the Gen X thing. Please elaborate.
aiiight...so you have a home and the wife is going to stay home and raise the kids. excellent. No other way if you ask me.
I guess Im just confused as how you can do this on 12-15K/yr?
Am I missing something?
The time to "play pilot" is when you have no responsibility...Im just confused as to how you can do this with a family? do you have a 6 figure savings? Im guessing NO as you were considering putting money on a CREDIT CARD to get signed off to tow banners!
GEN X is reference to the bizarre mentality displayed by a whole group of individuals that nothing matters but "me". They blame others, thier parents, management, whoever, for not "giving" them things. They put aside lifes responsibilitys to pursue stupid dreams (airline pilot maybe) that pay nothing. It dosen't matter becuase they dont want to regret anything later like their parents did.....they walk around airports looking like slobs in Doc Maartens and Ipods - their response - "pay me like a professional and maybe I'll act like one"....
we all know where that has gotten them.
Im not saying this is you, it was just sounding that way. A father and husband does not leave a mom at home to travel, play pilot, and make 15K a year -- at least not in my mind.
A better plan IMHO? - put off the kid for 2-3 years, have the wife work hard and bank every check in savings...see where the pilot thing leads....maybe you will wind up at a job where you can get by on your check and supplement with her savings for the first few lean baby years...
again, just advice, I know I can come across as a complete douchebag (thats my trademark here!)...but I have done the baby thing on one income. Its 100% worth it, but its not easy, and its NOT possible on those salary numbers. Hope that helps.
ah well...so be it. This isn't the first thread I have been a little lost on.