This industry use to encourage empowerment in employees but now that has been completely taken away by middle managers reporting to Execs who want "on-time" bonuses. We have been told the decision to hold flights for passengers in NO WAY involves the pilots. I have asked gate agents who wanted to close the door 10 prior if everyone was on board, been assured that they were, and then pointed to the people in the terminal window, madly waving to get our attention after arriving on a late inbound. They always respond with, "Well, the flight is already closed". It's always refreshing to fly with a Captain who says, "you can go up and open it, get these people on, and get us out on time or we can argue about it until we're late...but one way or another, those people are getting on". Doing so more often then not results in a call from the Chief Pilot reminding them not to get involved in passenger issues.
When I was at Eagle, a flight attendant's son was murdered on the other side of the country and she received a call in the middle of the night telling her she needed to come ID the body. The company provided her with Positive Space seat first thing in morning and she made the necessary funeral arrangements and returned home to collect her daughter and funeral appropriate clothing. When she contacted her supervisor about getting another set of tickets and they FLAT REFUSED. You get one positive space per event, she was told. She ended up trying a two leg route and got stuck overnight (*she could have made the connect but the AA Agents wanted to get out early and the flight left with open seats). The next morning, she again failed to get out of DFW and caught a cab to DAL to try SWA. The two got to ABQ and ended up being told the flight was full and they would have to get off. Crying, she began to collect her things and was asked by the SWA FA's what was wrong, she told them the circumstance...and...THEY TOLD THEM TO SIT BACK DOWN AND BOUGHT OFF A PAYING PASSENGER SO THEY COULD CONTINUE ON BOARD! She didn't even work for SWA. That says a lot about the employees at SWA and the culture there.