You make it sound like you think you will actually have a choice in the process if you become a military pilot.
To try and answer your question, any base is great. They are all what you make of them. As far as joint stations, the only one I can think of is FT Bragg that is colocated with Pope Air Force Base. I am sure there are more but I just can't think of any.
Many have flying clubs and they are reasonably priced.
Ft Rucker is a nice duty station. Low cost of living and relatively close to some beaches. The area is quet and the folks are nice.