Hmmm. So Jason became an air force pilot...and it only cost him his family...but that's okay, he just got a new one. Bullshid. I wonder if you asked Jason's two children from his first marriage whether it was worth it for them what they would say. A broken home, their father gone into a new family and a new life leaving them behind his ex-wife and kids to find his "dream job". Pardon me if I don't applaud. I would think twice before chasing any dream that damages your children's security, it's not worth it. How many more guys are going to leave broken families in their wake while they "find themselves". You want to do something truly heroic? If you're married with a family then you'd better figure out a way to make it work. You owe that to your kids. That was the first oath you took (to your wife) before flying ever came along.