A female grad's perspective
As a USAFA grad married to another USAFA grad, I am compelled to add my 2 cents. Yes, I am Mrs. HPaul3 and I often read the threads my husband subscribes to but with 3 small children I rarely have time to reply, or even read in depth. Many people I know have been asking about my experience there and my opinion on the subject, so for what it's worth, here it is.
I graduated more than 10 years ago, and never once felt sexually harassed or assaulted in any way. The one "problem" I encountered as a freshman was handled very quickly. I was in the shower very early in the morning and a male cadet walked in to the female facilities wearing a towel over his head. After I saw him, he quickly retreated down the stairwell. Feeling a bit uncomfortable, I found an upperclass female cadet who was up studying, and I asked her to stand guard. I left that day for a trip and upon my return, I found that the OSI had been called to investigate. Nothing ever really came of it other than more awareness. I suppose he was either lost or just a peeping tom. Other than this one isolated incident, I NEVER felt uncomfortable there. I had the highest respect for my fellow cadets and always felt the same from them. I didn't even have a lock on my door!
I feel sorry for all the cadets there now. There is obviously a problem that needs to be fixed, and I'm sure it will be. I have not been following the details in the media, but I know that with all this scrutiny, the powers at be will handle it appropriately.
In the mean time, we all need to stop generalizing and do what we can to promote all the positives. Let's continue to send our best and brightest sons and daughters there. I pray that the women who were truly assaulted get the help they need and those men who were falsely accused can be exonorated.
AA
USAFA '91
BOLD GOLD!!!
As a USAFA grad married to another USAFA grad, I am compelled to add my 2 cents. Yes, I am Mrs. HPaul3 and I often read the threads my husband subscribes to but with 3 small children I rarely have time to reply, or even read in depth. Many people I know have been asking about my experience there and my opinion on the subject, so for what it's worth, here it is.
I graduated more than 10 years ago, and never once felt sexually harassed or assaulted in any way. The one "problem" I encountered as a freshman was handled very quickly. I was in the shower very early in the morning and a male cadet walked in to the female facilities wearing a towel over his head. After I saw him, he quickly retreated down the stairwell. Feeling a bit uncomfortable, I found an upperclass female cadet who was up studying, and I asked her to stand guard. I left that day for a trip and upon my return, I found that the OSI had been called to investigate. Nothing ever really came of it other than more awareness. I suppose he was either lost or just a peeping tom. Other than this one isolated incident, I NEVER felt uncomfortable there. I had the highest respect for my fellow cadets and always felt the same from them. I didn't even have a lock on my door!
I feel sorry for all the cadets there now. There is obviously a problem that needs to be fixed, and I'm sure it will be. I have not been following the details in the media, but I know that with all this scrutiny, the powers at be will handle it appropriately.
In the mean time, we all need to stop generalizing and do what we can to promote all the positives. Let's continue to send our best and brightest sons and daughters there. I pray that the women who were truly assaulted get the help they need and those men who were falsely accused can be exonorated.
AA
USAFA '91
BOLD GOLD!!!