"One final note- how can I find out what is on my record. I know I can't see the "sealed" ones, but can I see the other one. I can't remember when this all happened, and it's hard to be honest on my form when I can't remember when it happened."
Guidoverduci, I'm writing this for more than just you; there are a lot of lurkers who gain knowledge from questions like this.
Run your own background check on yourself. You know where the bodies are buried; see if there's anything documenting it. For instance, I had a REALLY crappy driving record when I was a teenager. I got a copy of my driving record; it listed date & details for all of my moving violations.
Even if you don't find any bodies, report everything to the best of your ability. One caution on this, though. If you ever did drugs, make sure that it wasn't more than once or twice. You will fall into the 'experimental' category. Anything more, and you're going to eliminate yourself from consideration.
One thing that I found when I ran a background check on myself is that the state of Maryland never takes moving violations off your record unless you request in writing to have it expunged. Most other states clear everything after 7 years. One exception is DUI/DWI ... they're in the national driver registry forever.
For those of you who have already gotten your security clearance and are approaching renewal, you can get a copy of it INCLUDING the DIA agent's notes by requesting it in writing from the DIA. Mine was a bit humorous; the DIA agent made a few errors in recording the information that I told him. Nothing negative for me in personal interviews. It was pretty handy for renewing my clearance.
Tailwinds,
Andy